Lovemaking vs Sex- Is It The Same?

In today's society, the terms sex and lovemaking are interchangeable. But men and women don't look at them the same. From a man's perspective, for the most part unless he is the romantic, it is a "I want her and will not stop until I get her". He succeeds in getting her only to disappoint her because it ended before it began. She on the on the other hand expects more passion because this is her mindset.

Men and women view sex or lovemaking differently because men tend to be sight creatures, meaning they see it, want it, and will do whatever it takes to get it. On the other hand, women are emotional and it takes a great deal of patience on the man's part. It takes time to get her in the mood and once she is in the mood, man don't disappoint her.

So in part it is not the same and will not be the same because of the mindset of the man and woman. When both get on the same page it can be a wonderful experience for both or disaster due to selfishness. Lovemaking can be enjoyable for both as long as the man gets his mind together and as long as the woman realizes that she cannot treat him like a rough riding toy when she gets in the mood.

Sex can be if that is what she desires because she actually can dictate wheter it is sex or lovemaking by controlling the situation.

What do you think? Would love to hear your comments.