Lovemaking vs Sex- Is It The Same?

In today's society, the terms sex and lovemaking are interchangeable. But men and women don't look at them the same. From a man's perspective, for the most part unless he is the romantic, it is a "I want her and will not stop until I get her". He succeeds in getting her only to disappoint her because it ended before it began. She on the on the other hand expects more passion because this is her mindset.

Men and women view sex or lovemaking differently because men tend to be sight creatures, meaning they see it, want it, and will do whatever it takes to get it. On the other hand, women are emotional and it takes a great deal of patience on the man's part. It takes time to get her in the mood and once she is in the mood, man don't disappoint her.

So in part it is not the same and will not be the same because of the mindset of the man and woman. When both get on the same page it can be a wonderful experience for both or disaster due to selfishness. Lovemaking can be enjoyable for both as long as the man gets his mind together and as long as the woman realizes that she cannot treat him like a rough riding toy when she gets in the mood.

Sex can be if that is what she desires because she actually can dictate wheter it is sex or lovemaking by controlling the situation.

What do you think? Would love to hear your comments.

Bad News: Men, Why Your Sex Life is Failing

You figured out the right things to say. You have read all the books. Watched all the love stories; even listened to a few of your buddies telling you how to do the right things. You have done all the necessary things to woo her and make her feel like a million bucks and now is the time, your time has arrived. Too bad she does not have the same enthusiasm. Why is that?

Just like all things when we as men become selfish, we don't consider her at all. Getting yours is no longer the norm if you plan on keeping her. Trust me, your friends are checking out your lady in hopes that you will slip so they can show her what she has been missing. My advice to you to stop thinking of yourself and think of her likes-where to touch her, where to kiss her, how to hold her, the things to whisper into her ear.

Short but to the point. She will love you for it, trust me.

500 Lovemaking Secrets Exposed

Do you feel like your lovemaking is getting a little boring? Do you feel that some of the spice is missing? Trust me, you're not by yourself. I noticed that my spouse and I were not making love as often as we used to. And when we did, it was just the same old stuff we always did. We found that trying to manage careers, raise our three young daughters, and taking care of business as usual just did not leave time for ourselves.

In fact, I actually started to lose the enthusiasm to make love. It was different, often rushed, and I knew I needed to fix it before it got out of control.

So I jumped on the net and started to look around for some ideas, when I found this book called “500 Lovemaking Tips and Secrets.” As I was reading the book, my wife came over to see what I was doing. Once she knew what it was, she literally kicked me off the computer to read it herself. That is just how good the book is. Tons of information is given to set your lovemaking on fire.

Did the book give me the kick I needed to set our lovemaking on fire? Let's take a look at some of the items this book exposes:

4different methods to help prevent him from finishing too early.

24 tips and techniques to give a woman's clitoris more pleasure… she'll
thank you over and over again after giving her these gifts of pleasure
(tips scattered throughout)

How to make a woman more comfortable in the nude with the lights on…don't be surprised if she wants to do it with the lights on more often after this.

A unique way to keep your penis erect longer without pills!

How to make your man's facial hair softer… enjoy pain-free and itch-free kissing while being intimate with your man.

Two types of foods that give guys stronger erections.

A little short? That's okay… this little 'trick' will make her feel you deeper and increase her level of pleasure.

This book gives you all the tools you will need to make your lovemaking sizzle. It is for both men and women so that lovemaking time can be enjoyable for both parties. You will both want each other all the time!

I'm a big fan of '500 Lovemaking Tips & Secrets' because our lovemaking is truly terrific. We're never short of ideas to make things exciting and if we ever need an idea, we just open up the book. It's great!

If your lovemaking has become a bit 'ordinary' or you just want to make it even better than it already is, get this book! You will not regret it.